Why People are Scared of Being Committed in a Relationship

Indian marriages are all about commitment and those seven promises that need to be filled and delivered for a happy relationship, which is the importance of loyalty. What is the meaning of commitment in a relationship? Is the biggest question of the era, as Instagram generation does not commit much. Because they do not know about the mood the next morning may be feeling attracted to one picture and not a second one. They are not associated with the feeling, they are around a fake world which is always perfect, but the relationship is a combination of ups and downs. It may be fire, and in a moment it could be like ice or the bed of roses. Commitments are significant and should exist in a relationship; it makes the relationship meaningful and thoughtful.

On the contrary, some peoples are happy, and they stressed if asked for promises in relationships it could because of some past experiences or because they are afraid to trust people. But life does not go like this, hook-up in one night and ditching on others. It is not right, and this is how life goes you have to be settled and live life from a place.

•    Feel vulnerable: one of the proud species is humans; they are selfish, feel pride. They are not biased every time, but most of the time, it always leads them backward because forward has different buttons to be applied. If you want to be stronger and leaner than do not run from commitment as it makes you stronger and determining your goal could be more comfortable.

Have you ever seen people taking more risk after getting into a relationship this is because they trust and love their partners they are committed towards each other, and that pulled them upward!

•    Something better: perfect is not a real word, its actual meaning should be you have to make it perfect, and it applies to every relation, as we discussed this GRAM generation habitual of being perfect because of the photos, you could click infinite pictures and pick few, but the relationship does not work like that. You have to be committed to a person and stick to it.

•    Expectation: we generally make mistakes of living into dreamy word of excellence after having a relation, we could not digest that our partner is missing out of something, it bothers us that how is it possible it should be a straight line, but every straight line has ups and downs which is not clear once you crossed a phase.

•    Time: commitment does not mean boundaries, it is just love that should bind you with your partner if you do not want to spend time tell her, if you wish to express to her then also, but the more you spend time, the more you realize the importance of having conversations.

Commitment allows you to have true love and could provide the right direction in life, and this is why commitment important in a relationship.